Diversity The Real
Thing
I
recently got an e-mail message that really shocked and sickened
me. It was so ugly that I wont even quote
it.
It was about race. Evidently the
writer assumed that because I write critically about certain sacred cows
of diversity, I must share his rabid hatred for other groups.
I do take racial, ethnic, and
cultural differences seriously. I believe all men are created in
Gods image, but there is much more to be said about them when
they form groups. Its fine to celebrate diversity, but
group differences also lead to hatred and war. No point in evading that
fact with sentimental slogans.
At the same time, most of us
sympathize with the wistful cry, Cant we all just get
along? There is a sense in which its true, as the cliché has
it, that the things that unite us are more important than the things
that divide us. But the things that divide us, if ultimately less
important, are often more urgent, and its best to face them
frankly.
Indiscriminate hatred is often
called bigotry, but thats only one kind of bigotry. I know people
who are bigoted about Shakespeare, in the sense that they refuse to listen
to evidence against their views. A closed mind knows no bounds. It can
apply itself to any subject under the sun.
Racial bigotry is now the most
disreputable kind, and usually we are warned about its potential danger to
its targets. But there is a sense in which the racial bigot is his own
victim. I felt like replying to my correspondent, Have you stopped
to think what youre doing to your own mind and heart? What kind of
man have you turned yourself into? Is that what you really want to
be?
![[Breaker quote: The penalty of bigotry]](2004breakers/040916.gif) Im
proud to be a white man, a son of Christian Europe, to which I owe so
much. I hate the fashionable derogation of white people. At the same time,
thats no reason to react by derogating everyone else, any more than
loving and defending your family is a reason for disparaging other
families.
Europe has produced a very great
civilization, of which America is a part. But there are other civilizations
that should command our respect too, and even uncivilized people
were no longer supposed to call them savages have their
dignity. And of course our own civilization often fails to live up to its own
standards, sometimes outdoing savages in savagery.
All that aside, the racial bigot
denies himself the possibility of friendship, enjoyment, appreciation, and
countless other pleasures in the people he hates. If he takes his hostility
far enough, he becomes willfully blind to their virtues and ungrateful for
what they may have to offer him; he crabbily focuses on their faults and
shortcomings, as if these were the only things worth noticing about them.
And of course hell be tempted to violate their most basic rights.
This may sound like sentimental
twaddle, but I dont think so. I think its simple realism. I
owe too much to too many people to write off any group as a whole. I
understand that racial stereotypes usually have a good measure of truth,
but the variations within every group are so great that whenever possible
we should to use another cliché treat individuals as they
come.
Tragically, this isnt
always possible. Sometimes a generalization is all we have to go on. And
we often encounter the type who, as we used to say, gives the
whole group a bad name. I could tell you some stories. At times
Ive been embittered by those walking stereotypes. But Ive
also been confounded and even ashamed when people I was biased against
behaved with a grace I hadnt expected, acting in response to the
better angels of our nature.
Angels. Yes, cynicism can be as
naive as optimism, so Ive learned from experience to, as I like to
put it, look for the angels the people who, given a
chance, will react to a kind gesture with their own kindness. The more you
try to act like an angel, the more of these angels youll meet. The
bigot is always looking for devils. And, with a sour pleasure, hell
find them.
Joseph Sobran
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