Gay
Abe
Was
Abraham Lincoln ... gay? Was Honest Abe living
a lie, denying who he was? Was his marriage to Mary Todd, which produced
four sons, a
sham?
A new book by the late C.A. Tripp,
a leading homosexual theorist who died last year, raises these questions. I
havent read it yet, but a report in the New York
Times suggests that Tripps answer to all three is yes.
The strongest evidence that
Lincoln was homosexual is pretty wispy: As a young man, he often shared a
bed with his friend Joshua Speed. The strongest evidence to the contrary
is Lincolns own statement: I slept with Joshua for four
years. This has long been a well-known fact.
As Lincolns great
biographer David Herbert Donald remarks, he wouldnt have spoken
so freely if hed been homosexual. He didnt even have to
worry about creating suspicions. In an age of scarcity, thrift, and humble
accommodations, it was common for men to share beds.
Anyone who has endured an
Illinois winter can understand that. In those days an itinerant lawyer
couldnt rent a well-heated luxury suite for the night at the Holiday
Inn. He might have to settle for another guys body heat.
If Lincoln could also endure a
long marriage to the plump, ill-tempered Mary Todd, we may also suspect
that he had a normal male appetite for the opposite sex. Hed also
courted other women, and his biography by his law partner William
Herndon launched the famous though disputed legend that his true love was
Ann Rutledge, who died young.
The Times article,
by Dinitia Smith, notes that though Billy Herndon sometimes slept in the
same room with Lincoln and Speed, he never mentioned a sexual
relationship between them; nor did anyone else suggest one. Do
tell! In those days, and long afterward, nobody would have said such a
thing unless he wanted to be sued or shot supposing he could find
someone crazy enough to publish it. Miss Smith must be very young if she
thinks the absence of testimony of Lincolns homosexuality proves
anything, one way or the other.
![[Breaker quote: Did sodomy help end slavery?]](2004breakers/041216.gif) Tripps
strongest evidence seems to be a
close relation between President Lincoln and one of his bodyguards, whom,
according to some rumors, he also shared a bed with (in a cottage retreat,
not the White House) when Mary was away. The books introduction
by Jean H. Baker argues that Lincolns homosexuality would explain
his tempestuous married life with Mary and some of her agonies
and anxieties over their relationship.
But here Mary herself gives the
strongest negative evidence. She was, for lack of a more vehement word,
impossible. In fact, you can hardly believe it possible for
anyone to be so impossible. (Herndon and many of Lincolns other
friends hated her.) She was insanely jealous, and could make utterly
mortifying scenes when Lincoln showed even formal courtesy to another
woman. But she never made such scenes over men. I think we may assume
that Mary was the best authority on the nature of her husbands
desires.
Of course, in the absence of
positive evidence, we can only speculate. But why should we? There is no
positive evidence about whether Lincoln was homosexual or, for that
matter, about whether Mary was lesbian. We can construe any detail about
him his strong sense of privacy, for example as
proof of his concealed attraction for other men.
Why does it matter? Here is
where things get seriously goofy. Miss Smith writes,
Ms. Baker said that his outsider status would explain his
independence and his ability to take anti-Establishment positions like the
issuing of the Emancipation Proclamation. As a homosexual, she said,
he would be on the margins of tradition ... willing to be
independent, to do what is right.
Ah, yes, of course. Homosexuality
does have a way of sharpening the conscience, does it not? That would
explain a lot of our history. But alas, Lincoln was cut down before he could
also issue an anti-Establishment proclamation of gay rights.
Maybe, in some obscure way,
Lincoln ultimately brought this on himself by releasing the genies of
power that have ... No, I just cant do it. I cant finish that
sentence in a way that makes even the most strained pseudo-Hegelian
metaphysical sense.
Even Lincoln, for all his sins,
doesnt deserve this treatment. These people are, to put it in
nonclinical terms, plumb loco.
Joseph Sobran
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